I say milk it for all it’s worth-This has CHALLENGE written all over it- do the Iyov thing, and just say , Hashem, look at this test you are sending me, I am going to continue loving you and being grateful even though i am choking out of my wits. Give your kids the freedom to participate without agonizing about how miserable you are. And then swing your palm over to your shoulder, and pat yourself on the back. Can anything make you feel good here, chocolate, massages, with me it would be potato chips and a good book.I don’t think they could cut it..I don’t want to minimize how hard your situation is, but i think the ‘classy’ approach would be your best bet….Good luck and remember Hashem is close to the broken hearted, and he never makes empty promises
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