being the daughter of a recent (very recent!) quitter I can tell you that it bring tremendous stress to the home. In my family it was a taboo topic- done in orivate and not very often but I still knew about it and it stressed me out like nuts. It came to a point where I could not live with it anymore and the thought of my father dying would haunt me every second of the day. I wrote him a letter (first time the issue came out in the open) and B”H he accepted my criticizm and stopped! thank you hashem
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