Suggesting that every single person who smokes is stupid, lacking middos, etc, is simply idiotic. There are plenty of wonderful, caring people who just made a mistake at some point in their lives (often during their teenage years) and are still suffering from it. And there are plenty of boys who smoke, yet would make wonderful husbands and fathers. Pass them up at your own risk.
takish mamish:
“Wouldn’t anyone want to marry someone a lil more stable than that?!”
Smoking is a chemical addiction, and has nothing to do with a “stable” a person is. A smoker can be the most stable person in the world, and a non-smoker can be completely unstable.