This may be an eye opener for some, however as many of us pointed out smoking is an addiction. Of late, there are women in our frum community smoking.They may do it in private but for someone who has lived with a smoker, (and no he was not permitted to do it at home) you can easily identify a smoker by the smell, teeth, nails or body signals when he/she has an urge and must have a cigarette. During the summer, at a bungalow colony one of the women pointed out that every so often, a certain lady(no longer with us) just left the circle for a few minutes. One smart lady quietly told me she went for a smoke. So let’s turn the question around “would you let your non smoking son marry a girl who smokes discreetly”…. i forgot to add and her father is ready to give a large dowry????
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