Baal Simcha – I am sooooooooo happy you came (look happy)- it’s so much fun to share a simcha with a great friend – They say i have a power of giving brochos as a baal simcha, so I wish you with all my heart sheyimalei Hashem es kol mishalosaych l’tovah – you should only have brochos, yeshuos, parnassas b’harchava and kol tuv bharchava……..
Guest – Oh you look so gorgeous (wonderful, amazing, lechtig,…) I can’t believe that i am dancing at your wedding, I am so happy i feel like it’s my wedding (my sister’s, my daughter’s ) You can just feel the atmosphere -everybody is just so thrilled with this wonderful shidduch, and loves you, and wishes you the best (kiss, hug……….)
What’s to be uncomfortable – just cherish the moment!!!!!!!! Nobody can even see you or hear you- it’s such a mob scene.