@binahyeseira: You hit it right on the head, these two words are not very nice. So good to see that someone agrees with me.
@DovidHAmelech: So what you are saying is that if a person chooses NOT got get married s/she is evil? Please explain.
Not everyone wants to get married and some who do don’t want children. These are Personal choices, not to be made by the “kehilah”. Everyone has to live their lives according to their standards.