Dovid HaMelach: You are right about the children of divorce. Terrible.They are truly the innocent victims.
The couples that work on their marriages are mature enough to work things out for themselves and their children. That is fantastic.
If I may suggest, how about the man/woman who gets married but have that “gut” feeling it’s not the right choice but go a head because of all the pressures from family, friends and community?
I look forward to reading your response (if the mods allow my post).