maybe he was just nervous and tired not disinterested. After all you are meeting someone who you are going to potentially marry and talking to girls is not something yeshiva guys do (or should do) all that often. Nobody is disinterested and wants to go out again. On my first shidduch I seemed disinterested but actually was interested but couldn’t think of anything to say because I was too tired from being nervous and not sleeping the night before so it was awkward and boring even though I’m not like that. I say you should go out again- your potential gain outweighs your potential loss.
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