When you say you are crying for A, are you really saying that you feel bad for B that suffered under A? Not in English. The Mizbe’ach is crying for her, because of him.
I’m not trying to be picky, but I am trying to rectify a misconception that it cries no matter what. When you see the Pasuk and realize that it says for what he did to her, it’s obvious that when it is to her benefit, it could only rejoice.