“HLM:I beleive you can’t be angry with lively (happy) music. Even if you’re really NOT in the mood and want to be angry, hearing that music forces (well, at least me) not to be mad.”
same for me. I only get angry very rarely, B’H. music does the trick for me, too.
altho’ at the 2nd Seder, when someone had drunk too much & grabbed for another bottle of wine (my fave), after being told not to drink anymore, I did yell at him to put it down. even my son-in-law said that he’s never heard me yell before.