we have heard this expressed here over and over and over again.
you never discussed a Halachic issue with someone who wasnt a Posek?
you dont talk about Halachic issues with your friends?
do you meet with a Posek for every single question you ever had? do you call a major Posek when you forgot to say Yaaleh v Yaavoh at Shachris and you forgot the Halachah? maybe you should, but do you?