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R Kaufman

“Maybe you shouldn’t have said “no” so often.”

Completely disagree. I was the girl who said ‘yes’ to every guy that said yes to me because ‘maybe it would go’ now that I’m dating for 6 years unless its what I want, I’m not saying yes.

The way the Yeshivish world dates drains you really quickly (not that I’ve only dated ‘Yeshivishly’…) so if you are confident in what you are looking for, as I am, there is no need to waste your time with anyone else.

Goq

LOL!

burnt out

I completely hear you, but at the end of the day you dont want to waste your time. Its really not about how many guys you date, its about the right guy. Now that I choose quality over quantity the dates are more spaced out, but thats ok, its not a reflection on you.