Finally someone with Sechiel!! Thank you!! Torah is the most amazing thing in the world!! but people have to understand that this system of support was not an accepted thing 40 years ago. the great tzaddikim worked to e.g. the Chofetz chaim. this system is a very nice system in the idylic world but we are not living there. R’ Aaron Kotler was not setting up this system for the masses this is for a select few ppl who are willing to be MESIR NEFESH for torah and be happy with less. but instead it is everyone wants torah and all their fancy things.
THIS WILL NOT WORK LONG TERM!! especially not when parents are being forced to support against their capabilities!!
These children are killing their parents with all their unreasonable demands and parents are scared to say they can’t afford to support their kids cause otherwise they will not be able to marry off thier girls!