What the point of this is for people to understand that no not every parent could/should support. yes as long as someone can make enough by working half day that is the most awesome thing to do. and just cause someone is “working” doesn’t mean he is a shigitz. he is being a responsible father. people are being shoved into molds that they are not! and no you don’t have to worry about your great great great grandkids but you do have to worry about your parent/grandparent. this system is just feeding into the “se kimpt tzo mich” generation. no your parents/in laws don’t owe you anything. they did more then enough for you till they married you off. if you are mature enough to get married and build a family it is up to you and your hubby to make fiancial decisions on your own.
and thinking how you will need to marry off your kids is not thinking so much in advance. it will come around before you know it and at that point your parents may not be working any longer and you will have to fend for yourself and i wish you lots of hatzlocha at that point in your life!!