A rebbe came to town and spent a long time with a certain individual who was known to be a sinner in a loving manner. a man came over and asked i dont understand how you can even talk to him and not even rebuke him after he does such aveiros?
The rebbe explained – do you think the man doesnt know what hes doing is wrong?, of course he does. By yelling at him you will just make him feel even lower, what he needs is love.
I think that eaither-A)that is the situation with this boy (and in this case there was only one person being nice to him so he took that route) and throwing him out of yeshiva can not be more wrong…
Or-B)To be dan lcaf zchus- most boy yeshivos just brush off this issue and he was not taught as much as he needs to know about it.
Unfortunately i think its the latter and like most “yeshivish” yeshivos the boys arent taught about it because either it looks bad for the yeshiva…or the mechanchim are not with the times anymore about whats going on in the world…
perhaps will continue…