I cannot see where the word “settle” comes into play (unless its the neighbors / friends that you need to satisfy).
Do you have a 10 point check list? Not a problem; we all do.
Do you measure up to every 10 point check list out there? Impossible; none of us do.
So what’s the soliution? See if the majority of your list is satisfied, and the remainder can be worked on over the course of your marraige.
True, you will not be able to work on getting a 6’2 spouse if you take someone who is 5’7. But is the height really that crucial?
Are the middos in order? The work ethic what you want?
Sounds like you have a winner!