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May 17, 2011 5:45 pm at 5:45 pm
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Its a good thing that you arent infatuated, infatuation is skin deep and isnt based on anything substantial and doesnt last.
Not everyone is a ‘fireworks’ kind of person. You need to know yourself. Personally, I am an all or nothing kind of person with everything, if my heart doesnt skip a beat when trying on shoes/clothes I wont buy it.
Do you find yourself looking forward to seeing him, or are the dates more of a hassle? You dont need to get engaged after 6 weeks, DATE HIM! Relax, no pressure, let it be easy, develop a relationship and see where it goes.