Reply To: How to say "no" HELP

I haven’t said anything yet. I’m not sure you all understand where I’m coming from (I dont mean that in a bad way, there is no simple answer to this issue)

I’m not in discussions with a shadchan… this is a person who wants me to go out with their relative… So telling them what I’m looking for wouldnt work…

Also, i dont think this middleman is aware of that this person has these qualities… and will be blind to seeing it.

again, im not expecting an easy answer. It’s a real pickle.