“It’s far from pashut. You’re basically accusing all men of being disgusting lechers.”
I did not mean to say all men are “lechers”. I just that such a thing has occurred. My fault for my lack of clarity.
“That’s a separate argument and really has nothing to do with the issue at hand since the same applies to boys’ graduations.”
I admit I should also have been for clear. The argument is as follows. If I want to send by son or daughter to a place where I get to go to a competitive basketball game, have him or her join the Model UN, and wear a frilly hat then that is my choice, fine.
But if I want to send them to a school (the type I am assuming that is being discussed) who are not overly influenced by secular culture but rather Torah hashkafa etc., then what I am doing harping about my lack of being to able to attend a graduation ceremony and thereby denigrating the administration? If I didn’t like their views then I can send them to another school or gather people and make a new school. Just like them but with mixed graduation ceremonies!
DQB