bpt, “I really don’t know the answers to these qustions, call Rabbi ______, who knows the family very well.”
If the one asking the health question asks you: I’ll call them as well, but is there anything that you personally ARE aware of?
What would you say?
At that point, do you
1. lie and say no
2. say you’ve got to go and hang up (dead give away)
3. pause and say I’d rather not answer that (dead give away)
4. get somewhat upset at the caller and say I already told you to call __________ (dead give away)
5. say what you do know
6. say or do something I havent thought of