aries2756, OY VA VOY!
How do you go about getting information for your nearest and dearest? How do you respond to the questions you offered above when they’re asked of you, while you’re seeking Shidduch information? Please give sample answer, one by one. Or do you somehow avoid asking health questions? In any case, if you were asked these questions after asking ANY question, how would you respond?
Why are you asking me this?
Is something wrong with your child?
Did someone tell you something?
What are you afraid of?
Why is this a concern of yours?
And of course I would want to know who they are, who there Rav is, etc.
Personally, if I was asked the above questions, when looking for Shidduch info, Id say fuegedabatit! Id think Im getting far away from these folks if theyre friends or relatives! That would probably end that Shidduch idea!