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I agree with you, but the world is that everyone in society has to think they are better than the next guy.
I don’t have a problem with that… provided you truly are better than the next guy. You’ve learned Shas? Wonderful! You’ve started a successful business? Terrific. You’ve met some other personal, professional or spiritual goal that you’ve set for yourself? Congratulations. All those things may, indeed, make you better than “the next guy.” But who your parents are? Sorry… that’s just a lucky accident. It’s almost like saying that a millionaire is a great finance wizard when all he did was win the lottery.
What do you do if you’re just a plain person?
The correct answer (yeah, I know, I’m dreaming “pie in the sky”) is that you better yourself.
The Wolf