Jewish culture is not to look at an opposite gender… My friend just waved at him… You are opening too many threads about the opposite gender…
I found these to be most unexpected replies to the OP. Hmmm… I seem to have missed something so I had better read it again. No, I didnt miss anything. So let me ask, where in the OP do you see that yoyo is talking about the opposite gender? She didnt. She wrote
I tend to feel that people are staring at me… I have people who stare…
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This is the point. If we’re talking about the same gender then BSD is correct; do you do unusual things cos why else would they be looking at you. But if you were indeed talking about the opposite gender then you must find out what it is that attracts them to you more than to other people. Is it possibly eye catching clothing, or your make up, or your behaviour or anything else that could be modified? You need to think deeply about that. If its none of the above and you’re just naturally pretty and you wear modest clothes and have modest behaviour then take it as an unwelcome compliment. You’ll have to live with that until you find yourself a choson.