I think calling him a bum is very apropos. I wasnt referring to his religious level I was referring to his middos*.
Drinking on a date, on a second one no less (!) shows a girl you arent interested in her or what she has to say. If you want to chill, or you NEED to chill, do that on your own time! Its disrespectful and uncalled for and he will continue getting dumped until he learns how to properly treat a woman.
(Definition of bum is also obnoxious person. Look it up.)