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I don’t believe in alcohol. And someone who has no problem ordering alcohol on a date is someone to be wary of. I dont’ think it is appropriate in the lounge, in the bowling alley or elsewhere. If the bochur has a need to have a beer to chill, then there is a problem.
Good thing you weren’t in my shul last Shabbos. Someone gave a kiddush for yahrzeit. Virtually the entire minyan was drinking, mostly Scotch.