Thats why it’s best to have a really understanding Gadol to advise them.
I agree, of course. Since each case is unique, it’s hard to have a discussion about specifics here in the CR. In each case, the affect on the rest of the family also must be considered.
Daas Yochid,
And here lies the major problem, most of what is being labled as assur is not so clear cut so.
You addressed your post to me, so I assume you think I disagree with your point. In a general sense, I don’t disagree, although we may disagree about specific application.
rescue37: you can’t pick and choose kulas. if the family mesora and rov holds something is assur, a kid can’t still do it cause another rov holds its not assur.
That same rov may take a more lenient position for a particular situation (sha’as had’chak).