As Aishes Chayil and Adorable said, generally, girls are more sensitive than boys, and therefore, when rejected, would take it harder. Because of that, if one is dating through a shadchan, it seems logical to make sure the boy is willing to date her before she hears about him. However, there obviously can be exceptions to that; Not all situations are the same. Same thing with the concept of boys having more dates than girls. While this is generally the case, it definitely isn’t always. There should not be only one procedure for everyone. Analyze every situation and then make a decision that would produce the healthiest outcome.
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