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nottelling-I agree with you that feeling invisible is aweful, however popularity is not the measure of a man (or a woman). Are you kind and caring(it sounds like you are) do you brighten some ones day? that is what separates the men (and woman) from the boys (and…) That is all you take with you. Having said that, the CR may be a good place to observe… who gets responses, and why. Which posts do you respect and feel like responding to, and which don’t you. And you can apply what you learn to real life as well. An interesting SN is helpful-why not use all the tools at your disposal. Especially since you claim that you have henceforth(is that the right word?) gone unnoticed. Why not continue with nottelling-that’s pretty creative.