It’s interesting that Mod is unhappy with specifics because the thread is getting too “detailed,” when it’s precisely the details that the poster is interested in.
One solution might be for the Mod to somehow indicate that a particular thread is “ladies only – if you’re a guy proceed at your own risk.” Of course, then you might need to have a lady Moderator 😉 Or are some of the Moderators ladies unbeknownst to us?