Reply To: why is it fair for a younger daughter to have to wait for the older daughter?

Don’t know about your specific case but often times the two brothers or sisters who are so close in age are both similar in personality and character. Obviously you have the same parents and I presume went to the same schools so though each person is a little different it is possible that the shidduchim suggested for you could be shayach for your sister too. By competing against your sister you are potentially disadvantaging her in getting dates that would be suggested to her for yourself. Wait a little it’s not going to matter in the long run if you are married at 18 or 20 or (gasp) 21 if it makes your sister happy.