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I agree that everyone should have an older and wiser person to discuss their dates with but please don’t get disgusted by them! If they don’t feel it then they don’t feel it. Ze hu! Why should they go out again to spare the girl’s feelings when they’ll end it on a next date and hurt the girl even more as she will be more emotionally invested? I believe it’s extremely frustrating as a shadchan to keep having to give over a no and I really commend you for putting in the effort to help the singles among klal yisroel but please don’t think you know with certainty that a guy should continue dating someone. He just may have his reasons.