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pac: Have you missed: Yes, there are girls like that too, who reject most of hundred+ guys they date, but way less.?
pba: You consider it Derech HaTorah and Derech Avoseinu to go out with more than a hunred girls and reject most, for a few years straight, causing immeasurable pain in homes all over? Rejection hurts!!!
You can predict the future with likelihood, if you study the past. A guy who rejects hundreds and doesnt change his attitude, will, barring small number of exceptions, only do the same in the future. Too much pain inflicted on innocent, well intentioned girls.
Saying it’s Basherte isnt an answer when inflicting pain on many.
ilove: We’re on the same page! Yes you clearly see the difference among the genders, within families, in a great majority of families.
CTO: Reasons? Any and every reason or just “Not for me”. What I think they mean? I’m not ready to be realistic or I’m not ready to commit.