Mdd…I dont see a joke anywhere in my post.
Pacman…As for being responsible for others there is a proper way to go about it. Criticizing is not the way. Maybe you should follow the example of Kiruv rabbis. They have a non confrontational judgmental approach. They get people to change and it’s not because they shame and tell people how wrong they are.
People would be more receptive with this approach.
The tznius crisis can be worked on through education, not telling women how wrong they are. You may actually drive women further away.
Work with people to get them to change telling them how wrong they are won’t work.