bochur,
Agreed
oomis, dunno,
I can certainly understand the pain of the girl/guy who was on the receiving end of a date where the other party lacked basic respect(been there, hopefuly never done that)
from:wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
I guess if you use the 2nd or 3rd defenition of those 3 defenitions, then you can use Horror to describe certain dates.
“While I fully agree with you that everyone should be a mensch, bad dates exist even if the guy is one.”
What was bad about it? The way you felt? The guy/girl?
If it was how “you” felt, I am %100 percent respectful about others feelings and would never disregard them. So you can say ” he/she was a nice person but I would not like to continue”
Was it circumstantial? Weather, cancilations? Beyond his control
But, if as you say that you had “bad dates” where the guy was mentchlach, and you still call it bad because of someway the guy appeared or you just simply didn’t like like him from the onset, then to call that BAD reeks of Gaava
A lack of being someone Dan l’kaf zechus has some hints of Gaava
Many Rebbes/Rosh Yeshivas say that it’s improper to talk to your friends about people you dated, for tznius reasons and lashon hara reasons