I discussed this many times in previous topics here in the CR. To refresh e/o’s memory the reason you have to make a Machoh against Toeiva marriage is because it’s much worse than just being a Toeivahnik. We previously quoted that Hashem didn’t bring the destruction of the world until the Toievaniks wrote Kesubos to each other. So how can you stand by and watch the destruction of the world? It’s probably Ossur to say about their marriage plans -live and let live. This brings destruction to the world, so you can’t be quiet.
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