stickynote – the first thing before practicality is to develop an hashkafic perspective and guideline THEN the choices can be made if they fir into the guidelines. BUt if one never agrees to the premise, then they can just tell someone to chilllllllllllll.
HIE- if one chills here, what will happen to him after here?? Funny we should call it chilllllllllll, maybe we should help people visualize and awaken self by calling it buuuuuuurn!!!!