ilovetheholyland – “the only problem is (which freaks me out,) is that on a date, you would NEVER be able to tell that they would say things like this.”
You’re absolutely right! It’s scary to think you could be dating some “amazing” guy and really know nothing about him. what shadchan is going to tell you “he’s really wonderful but he does make fun of ppl who are slow”?
anyway – i hope you and all others who are looking will find your true zivug – the one who is amazing and with TRULY good middos!!!