Reply To: GOOD MIDDOS?!?!?!?

“we shouldn’t be so tough on others because we aren’t perfect either and while they may have a problem in one area, you may have a glaring problem in another and you wouldn’t want some guy writing a thread on a forum about a chisaron he saw in you.”

your 100% right. i dont mean to judge the guys. but there are certain things that everybody knows. let me show you how the conversation went.

SLOW GUY: “hey shmerel (no that was not the guys name…) whats up?”

SHMEREL:”everythings good, i didnt see you in so long (sarcastically) now could you please move out of my way?”

SG: “what? i didnt hear what you said”

SHMEREL: “the last five words i said were “MOVE OUT OF MY WAY”

exactly like that. and i dont think they were drunk but even if they were, chazzal say that when a person is drunk his true essence is seen. granted women are more sensetive then men, but there is something called mentchlichkeit and super sensetivity to those more unfortunate then we are. im sorry, but a person who could be so heartless and cruel does not have good middos in my books. yes, i do have my many chisronos but the way i see it this is not just a sensitivity…a somthing nice to do. were talking about treating another human being respectfully. (at the most, treating him like a regular person.) and if a person cannot excell in the middos of ben adam lachaveiro, i wonder how he can excell ben adam lamakom.