Adorable, it entails being who you are today and loving yourself for who you are today. You can’t undo the past but you CAN forgive yourself and move on. I am sure someone can post the famous quote that I am sure I am saying wrong.. Yesterday is history and we can’t change it, today is a gift, the present so appreciate and be grateful for it make the most of it. Use it to prepare for tomorrow, the future.
Don’t get hung up on past since there is nothing you can do to change it, it is history and it is over. What you could have done differently and should have done differently is what you can change for the present and look forward to for the future. That is something you can do. That is something feasible and attainable. Don’t let the past be a stumbling block towards your future. There are two things you can do when there is a boulder in your path. You can either keep ramming yourself into it to see if it will budge or you can walk around it and keep moving. So it is up to you what you choose to do. Are you going to keep ramming yourself up against your past and let it keep being a stumbling block in your present and future or are you going to walk around it and past it to keep going and leave it behind? That is your choice. It is baggage that you can choose to leave behind and continue to make better choices and improvements in your life.
Try to set some short term measurable and attainable goals so you can easily look back and see how far you have come and how much you have accomplished. This will give you the self-confidence and self-esteem to keep moving forward. As you grow, you can keep setting more short term and then longer term measurable and attainable goals. Don’t push too far in a direction that is too far reaching for the level that you are at because that will only lead to frustration and disappointment that is unwarranted. Pace yourself and you will eventually get to the point where you will not have a need to look back just keep looking forward. We can never ever stop reaching for better goals since we can always achieve a higher level of improvement in our lives. So all of us keep trying our best to keep climbing up to higher madreigos.
I hope this was helpful for you, and it is something that you can adapt to your reorganization plan. The sky is the limit but you can’t take the express elevator, you have to take the local one stop at a time. How does that sound to you?