Speak to your Rav/Mentor/parent (if you single) or spouse (if you are married) tell them why it is affecting you. Once you do that most likely they will agree with you then go back and say so and so said it was not healthy for me to hear your sorrows so I can’t. This should shut her up as she can’t really tell you not to listen to them. Keep in mind that it will probably hurt her but it might be a case of ???? ??????. OTOH if they disagree it will help give you the right prospective and that will, hopefully, give you a perspective.
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