July 5, 2011 3:24 pm at 3:24 pm #597800
my co worker is a very easy-going personality. I can deal with that, even though its no tmy personality and makes me nervous sometimes. The issue is when it comes to her being easy going about her work which affects my work. we sit right near each other and I only go online to shop or YW when I’m done my work. her on the other hand, she is always behind because she is always on other sites before she even starts working….. because she is the bookkeeper it makes my job so much harder and I constantly have to cover up for her….July 5, 2011 4:20 pm at 4:20 pm #785492bptParticipant
Try this: don’t cover for her a few times, and allow some work to miss deadlines.
That should bring the procrastination to a haltJuly 5, 2011 4:29 pm at 4:29 pm #785493
Once my boss came in and the papers that he needed should have been all neat but they weren’t- they were all over the place and he got all upset and asked me to call her and find out where she put them. When I called her at home, she said they are all over the place and I should try to stall him and she’s coming in. She came in after work and was all flustered. She said that taught her a lesson but whatever- doesn’t seem to have workedJuly 11, 2011 5:38 pm at 5:38 pm #785496
sorry for you. tough….July 11, 2011 7:12 pm at 7:12 pm #785497maskingtapeMember
adorable, why are you toughing coke? sounds like you’re the co-worker here…July 11, 2011 7:27 pm at 7:27 pm #785498
no I am not the co worker I just understand that it could be toughJuly 11, 2011 7:47 pm at 7:47 pm #785499
and I find it annoying when the mods take a break and i am literally dying of boredomJuly 11, 2011 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm #785500maskingtapeMember
adorable, sorry for you. tough….July 12, 2011 3:37 pm at 3:37 pm #785501
Ok what should I tell my co worker. I cant deal anymore. She is also always talking about her personal life issues and I dont want to hear it anymore. I am very close to her but at this point I think its affecting me to hear about her divorce, sickness, family fights….etc. all dayJuly 12, 2011 3:48 pm at 3:48 pm #785502get a lifeMember
Speak to your Rav/Mentor/parent (if you single) or spouse (if you are married) tell them why it is affecting you. Once you do that most likely they will agree with you then go back and say so and so said it was not healthy for me to hear your sorrows so I can’t. This should shut her up as she can’t really tell you not to listen to them. Keep in mind that it will probably hurt her but it might be a case of ???? ??????. OTOH if they disagree it will help give you the right prospective and that will, hopefully, give you a perspective.July 12, 2011 7:21 pm at 7:21 pm #785503
Im leaving this job. I made my decision today and its final! I have been back and forth about if I should leave but now I just decided that its officialJuly 12, 2011 7:40 pm at 7:40 pm #785504TheGoqParticipant
why are u leaving?July 12, 2011 7:57 pm at 7:57 pm #785505
Im bored and feel like wasted energy here.July 12, 2011 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm #785506minyan galMember
adorable – Don’t do anything rash. At least you have a job, so keep it until you can find something more suitable. You can take a bit of time to find a position that fits you perfectly as you still have an income and something to fall back on. With the unemployment rates the way they are today, don’t quit your job without another one guaranteed. I am quite sure that many of the unemployed people in the CR would agree with this advice.July 12, 2011 9:05 pm at 9:05 pm #785507
I know its time for me to leave but thank you for the advice you are right. its not a rash decision its going on for a whileJuly 12, 2011 9:22 pm at 9:22 pm #785508MiddlePathParticipant
adorable, if you feel right about your decision, then go for it. But minyan gal is right, any job in this economy should not be taken for granted. I really hope that whatever you decide, you should be happy about your choice.July 12, 2011 9:33 pm at 9:33 pm #785509
I didnt tell my boss now that Im looking elsewhere but if this job is BAD for me then I think I should leave no? and I have spoken to a couple of people who know me personally and they all agree (they think i should have left 5 months ago but…)July 12, 2011 10:15 pm at 10:15 pm #785510Another nameParticipant
hatzlacha with the job hunting process!!!July 13, 2011 2:48 pm at 2:48 pm #785511
thank you so much. I cant deal anymore I feel like Im a flower thats dying here…..July 13, 2011 3:42 pm at 3:42 pm #785512MiddlePathParticipant
adorable, do what’s best for you. I wish you success in finding something that you will be happy doing and makes you feel accomplished. By the way, did you start the new class yet? How’s it going?
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