Hudi, I don’t know what your last comment has to do with what I said. I’m sorry if you were insulted. I’m not judging your modesty (and you obviously care about doing the right thing if you are seeking advice), rather your comment shows a lack of maturity to seek advice from someone more capable of helping you than cr.
I mean things like glitter eye shadow, layered look, open toe, etc. Those are generally more grey and you cannot find those answers in halacha books.