msseeker- Recently Rabbi Horowitz was interviewed on Talkline. One caller said he’d been abused but never told anyone. I don’t think this was one story, I think it happens more often than we realize (or maybe I should say happened, B”H there is more awareness now). I don’t think most people go around with a sign saying what they went through, and I’m not sure that everybody gets help for it so theres no way of knowing even if the numbers (from therapists) are the actual numbers.
And congratulations. You got me to talk to the computer screen
(actually twice). It might be a good idea to keep in mind that part of Torah is Bein Adam L’chaveiro.