imnotsaying says
“So, I’ve been told because of peer pressure. So, he doesn’t have the ability to stand up to what he believes? If someone would jump off a roof, would you too? Smoking is much more expensive, more harmful and a more painful way of dying!”
Hmmm… So what about a girl whose tznius is not 100% because of the peer pressure that “everyone dresses that way and I don’t want to be neb or a frummie”. Should we cross those girls off our shidduch lists because they are putting themselves into spiritual danger due to peer pressure?