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Ah! B”H SOMEONE figured out how to blame a tzar Yisroel on tznius! In my opinion, it isn’t JUST the tznius that is a problem, the problem is a lessening of fighting the Yaitzer Hara on all fronts. For women it is usually tznius, for men (yes, it isn’t only the women–you guys aren’t perfect either. Sorry) it might be sitting in the bais medresh but doing something other than learning or it might be driving like you think you own the road (this often is dangerous not to mention causing a chilul Hasnem). Often, unfortunally, a man doesn’t change his dress but is like a tree that looks good on the outside but is rotten from within, note the way the Monster looked. It is so easy to yell about tzniyus and pritzadike women. While the tzinus level in many communities can be improved, if that is all you look at, you are probably missing a lot.