Did someone come to your house and tell you that your women must dress a certain way or suffer consequences?
Quite common in EY & Europe (and certain areas in the US); its called schools & shidduchim. 🙁
(Please excuse me, I’m in a cynical mean mood. Take everything I say with multiple grains of salt)
1. Believing that people are motivated by self-interest; distrustful of human sincerity or integrity.