I have gedorim from my Mashgiach as per what I should do. Each of you can ask your own personalized question, as only someone who knows you well can give you the answer that is right for you.
Indeed. I have no problem with that approach. It’s when someone says “you’re not allowed to do so because this rav or that rav said so” that I have a problem.
In other words, if your particular rav says don’t have guests over, then listen to him. For others who do have guests over or are in communities where such things are the norm, they should not be made to feel guilty for having guests.
The Wolf