Reply To: chassunah, who pays for what?

sm77, the crazy thing is that you spend that much on a chassuna! i am so sorry, but where i come from, the weddings are very nice and they don’t take away two years of your salary. unless you are someone who has to keep up with the jonses, or maybe you ARE the jonses, there is no excuse for that! its disgusting what money ppl will throw away for five hours! why don’t you cut down and maybe use some to give to the chosson and kallah to start their life together? unless that was part of the cheshbon, which is still totally crazy!