Reply To: Who needs to change?

I lost nearly 70 pounds of extra weight and was able to return to my original clothing size from the day we married. He stlll rejected me for months on end, at which point I became discouraged and began putting the weight back on (my issue; I’m working on this). I’m just questioning, am I crazy for waiting around, wasting months and years on end thinking things will improve and the attraction will grow? How am I to understand a man who is attracted to his wife when they first marry, and then, even returning to this weight, a lack of attraction or interest? I just don’t get it, and don’t want to waste my life waiting to see if it will be fixed, if I just become “good enough, or thin enough”.