Reply To: Who needs to change?

You definitely need someone to speak to. I would suggest that the first person you speak to is your Kallah teacher. She will be the least bias person since she doesn’t have a horse in the race so to speak. Please be absolutely honest with her. She will probably have some questions for you so try to answer them truthfully. She might advise you to call his Rav or she might offer to make the call for you. You will only build resentment if you don’t address the issue and find out what is going on and correct it.